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what's up, what's up what's up, john melton coming to you live from baltimore, maryland. and i'm quite lively, today i'm a little hyper. a little fired up. probably not going to sleep for a little while so why not hang out with each and every one of you on facebook alive and replay viewers what's up what's up what's up how's it going for those you

just starting hop on live say hello where you're coming in from jesse lee ward i know you're doing super duper fantastic by the way if you're not inside of our private facebook community the my lifestyle kadim e facebook group you just missed one of the most epic trainings in the history of training tonight inside of our group jesse we

went live for a little over an hour she did a q&a at the end it was epic how to run a seven-figure business on facebook on the facebook and you know i actually have several these jackets yes i know it's true they're all very very soft silky smooth i like them long time what's up chuck miller what's up care and keith and any way suggesting we did

this amazing training it's only going to be available for 48 hours 48 hours it's going to be available then it's gone then it's only going to be inside of our social network marketing academy course those of you that have the course you are very very very lucky so i'm fired up nadia is going to be joining us shortly and i think she's just wrapping up her

makeup so that's that that's a good thing i don't think babies getting late i got to do my facebook live i haven't gone live let's go so listen some of you are sucking right now at life you're sucking in business you're sucking just in general right now and my glasses on body is fuckin holmes water use them sometimes you're going to some but you

gotta limit your sucking so because baby sucking creates wink yeah and you don't want wrinkles right here and right here so so stop the sucking right enough of the sickness so we want to get you out of suckville and look here's the dealio sometimes the reason that we're starting a business is the same excuse that we're using right like people will say why

don't have any money well that's sucking so let's get you out of suckville start a business well i don't have the money to start that's a problem that you want to say right that's a problem you want to solve as an entrepreneur we are professional problem solvers so if you want to get out of stock ville if you want to

improve your financial situation your relationships your happiness you want to get yourself in a better situation then you have to do some important things so we're going to talk about that tonight first thing is you've got to drop the excuses excuse i see itã­s is a disease and it's contagious let's talk about that baby oh did you see systemic very

dramatic all right here's what i've learned if you got to be dramatic right like if you want to create results in your life you've got to stand out and what is the best way to send out to be loud and proud you got to be traumatic but like in all the positive spence that we can like you know come up and you're what concur yeah so a lot of people say

that you know they want to get out of their situation but let's be honest they're not working right you gotta work work work i can't tell you how many people i see then get involved in a business or there in like i was in the mortgage business my buddy chuck miller you just made me think about this so sir chuck and i used to be two of the

biggest beast loan officers because we worked our faces off and we were freaking good won't reach out i hope you're still on but you know i'm telling you chuck was one of the only loan officers that can keep up with me i was running only loan officers who can keep up with him but there were people that just simply didn't work like i just made

to three times the phone call to other people made other people would make excuses i made money you can't do both you can't make money and make excuses if you're a network marketing traditional business right you want a happy marriage happy relationships you want great children you can't make excuses you have to develop skills and you got to work

your face off michelle thank you for sharing if you share will give you a shout out jonas troyer thanks for sharing but this is a big deal man so many people guy miss you too buddy so i didn't baby you there's so many people that get involved in a business and they call like 10 people right like when i was in the mortgage business i made a

hundred calls a day a hundred calls a day did i not youth in and there was people that challenge me they'd be like oh you won't keep up that pace and i'm like thank you think that that motivation they could have done i would literally i had a headset on i'd be in the bathroom on the phone like you know urinal not you know number two number

one but i'd walk in there it's clean they stuffed me in the bathroom and the hallway in the way the bathroom i'm like your them on the phone going through you're always on the phone i'm like yes and i'm always at the top of the leaderboard always making money same thing in network marketing i'm always recruiting i'm always signing up new

people we signed up seven people i signed up seven personal recruits in the last 48 hours why because i don't make excuses right yeah you're going to go through lulls here get up time for your busier but you just keep moving forward if you're in suckville you got to snap out of it and take action i mean here's what happens you guys how many of you

have ever been like driving and then it happens so it's all like it happens to the best of us right like you get a little bit tired and then your mind gets a little bit foggy and then you're so tempted thank you for sharing chance to kind of stop and like look around in the middle of the sackville dude like we got to snap out of the crazy mess like we

got to keep driving we got to put the pedal to the metal yeah you know i'm russian and here's what i am here to tell you like if you're going to drive anywhere fast that would be russia there's no laws there's no nothing so my advice to you is this like do not even slow down when you experience your grandma from that you have to outwork

the drama sorry get a little thing with drama great all right fine you got to outwork the drama i like that that's a cheerio that's not what we should make a picture quote i won't do it i like it so let's make a little mean bobby joe clifford thank you for sharing appreciated lisa pomeroy thank you for sharing those you to share it will try

to give you a shout out okay also baby you tell me this all the time devin capra thanks for sharing speaking debt do not speak down speaking death life in death i'm beginning to be a tongue exactly right you guys know what they say in the bible right is that the life and death is in the power of the tongue and you're not crazy every vangelis the

end every time you speak somebody is listening to you are listening your kids are listening for those of you that are parents like we have to be so obnoxious about what it is that we actually create into existence and here's what i'm here to say all right is that when you create words you are planting seeds and the law of radiance elway creating reality yes

and the law of agency wayne is a life in the world just like the law of gravity is alive and well like you don't believe me i step of the building step up the building and let us see whether or not that matters right so what happened to i don't believe in gravity yesterday watch what did you say like you got to be proactive and this

does tell us that less than five percent of the wealthy actually speak their mind hmm do you remember that stuff ya know it's true though it's crazy yeah they think with auntie but they'll even to themselves they don't share and express every size which that's something i'm working on all right yeah all of us have negative thoughts right all that i have

a brain that is you know our brain was designed for survival not prosperity right so i'll bring y'all thank you for hearing feed us loser thought so you cannot contain your thinking the first thought that hits your mind but you can control the second so the problem is this is when you get hit with the first loser thought when you project it into

the universe that's the problems you have to bite your tongue you have to create like well the role in our house no whining and complaining exactly that's one of the rules no wonder men want to hold you up aaron nelson mccloskey steel thank you for sharing now i think this is a really big deal but also avoid the blame game okay this

is another reason you're in saukville i have your blink my upline sucks my upline is not to use social media my spouse won't support me my friends are making fun of my live videos my prospects aren't calling me back like you're blaming everyone else you gotta look in the mirror look network marketing is hard as shoes right it hard

like it's hard socks sometimes so is life so our relationships so parenting sucks sometimes amanda gross thank you for sharing rebecca rombach hey guys here when you form time thank our dc house we are pointing back at you sometimes life sucks sometimes yes it is easier to blame others it's easy to blame your company it's easy to blame

your mouth but the reality is that you've got yourself in that one on wishing and sometimes look you know what sometimes people make mistakes sometimes you got problems you got drama for your mama you can't avoid the challenge or see we talk about this all the time so we're just like fast forward like in the perfect world

g'nite click the movie click have you seen portugal what number are we on like drop our two i don't know two three four drop or two if you've seen the movie click like don't you wish sometimes you go omg like it's a little dramatic for my taste let's face it you know what they say when it's dramatic oh skip it along oh skip it alone like you see a

puddle you're not going to voluntarily jump into the puddle should i mean you want to skip it so how could we fast-forward like i'll click you know the door makes you want to fast-forward yeah and here's the other thing too a lot of times we're not like life life seems like kind of sucky so and yes because we're not working but also the

reason we're not working is because we're probably not inspired haha we're not surrounding ourselves with people that inspire us that motivator it excite make us feel good that make us feel that that is my own life and yet that's early reason that's why i said yes cuz she asked me i propose but lady a true sometimes but i didn't order though i

did i'm like okay i might like it for you to buy so much it was like a jedi mind trick it was why i shot i'm ready by right now wait up like oh i already they're going to get a rain so let's go get one let's go do this thing both of you ladies look so maybe you're not working because you're not some iron maybe you're blaming others because you

feel sorry for yourself and you've got to snap out of it and one thing you should do so we talked about this yesterday or one of my trainings is is developing yourself right mindset working on yourself personal freaking development every day no excuse 30 minutes a day minimum every single day you should be working on yourself in

fact when you're going through suckville you should triple your personal development not double it triple it la la so so um i lost my train of thought no i didn't get a little frisky at this hour but on a serious note this is a really big deal that could be a member probably not doing personal development i bet you're not reading any books i bet

you're not listening any personal development i bet you're not going to any seminars any conferences you're not doing anything to develop your mind the more i feed my mind the more good output positive vibes i put out into the universe because i'm feeding my mind i'm more excited more powerful more confident my postures

better my belief it's just like stuff comes out of me that i don't even know is in there something work yourself right please but but a lot of us were in saukville and we're focused on the suckiness of our lives and that's what's making it worse it's a compound effect in the opposite direction you should pick up the book the compound effect by

darren hardy you guys so where is the prime example is internalized your circumstances it's right oka sonic well you feel like you've been buried you've actually been planted and so you have to become the spin master you just have to take a look at every circumstance as it is just the universe or god whatever you believe it it's just a it's just the

speedway for you to get to where you need to go you have to let go of the good to be blessed with the great let go down the way the cookie crumbles and sometimes some of us get caught up in the wrong thinking again i'll grain sometimes you have to disobey like i'm a big believer to hashtag obey but here's until dude whenever you brain gives you

loser thought you have to evaluate you have to bring logic into emotion and you have to snap out of the nonsense and you have to marinate your brain in the goodness in your brilliance in the fact that god does not make john in the in the fact that you are here for recent so i'm like let's get to it like you feeling bad does not serve the world

hello amber hi amber compound effect that's right what's up give that an applause give that analog trudeau so it looks truthfully let's say your ass up i'll say well you know i'm not really i'm not really seeing results in my in my home business because when i saw a home business entrepreneurs network market right okay cool how many live

videos did you do this week drop your number you don't like doing videos gotcha excuse itã­s okay how many people did you proactively prospect this week we like to use facebook groups for our company how many people did you add to your private facebook group today today how many people did you spark conversation with today how many people

did you put in group chats with your upline right how many group chats and your downline do with you write your team do with you the bottom line is most of us if we were truly honest we didn't prospect enough people today or this week period right unless you adjusted yet we didn't do enough we didn't do enough live videos this week

right joey great job more videos okay but the truth of the matter is the people that are struggling they're not working on themselves or either you know again they're making excuses they're doing the blame game right all this stuff we just touched on so you have to figure out identify what it's going to take right to get that breakthrough

right do you need to attend a seminar do you need to invest in a course in a book you need to just surround yourself with better people you need to cut although some of the people in your life laurieann right you got it look as entrepreneurs you got to figure shit out if you want to make money brandi thanks for sharing you have to get out of that

current situation you're in instead of just focusing and dwelling like most people do and most people you don't want to be like most people most people are broke most people have more months than money most people do not leverage their time the time and efforts of other people most people don't even like what they do for a living isn't that sad

isn't it sad that most people have plenty of opportunities we live in america those of you that are what other time you add from us if you live in a country where you're a believable you're able to go i become a millionaire you know if watching that tony robbins interview he said listen if you make eighteen thousand dollars a year

eighteen thousand dollars a year you're actually in the one-percent wealthiest people in the world out of the billions of people on the planet if you make eighteen thousand a year you're in the one-percent do you realize that like you live in america you live if you live in a country maybe you don't live in america you're watching this but you

live in a country where you're able to start a business you're able to be an entrepreneur like in russia not so much i mean if the government doesn't stop you the mafia will yeah i mean right like here's what i am here to say and this is why they say that if you are from another country your chances of becoming a millionaire of four times

more than somebody boys here why is that well let's introduce the concept of gratitude like how many of you guys drop a 5 into the chat if you do gratitude every single day like we train our kids of their awesome italy welcome to gratitude i mean like we i'm take for granted and oh my god and we have you know it's been right that we

have like running water i mean right like i was telling john some of my tactic is like the way that i grew up like we would wake up in the middle of the winter negative 40 degrees and we would walk to school i don't know how i didn't freeze to death is what i'm here to say i don't like i'll be great i don't even like walking to the car i

don't like they're walking to the mailbox world they just go down so yeah i mean look at the end of the day lauren i start your day shows like that let's give a nice women so i'm some ideas again a suck ville first of all and number one start your day with gratitude i agree wake up five minutes earlier okay a lot of radical guy gratis already

doing it yeah so drop weight so you told me drop a drop of five a very divided today already dropping five sequenom yeah i'll that was whoo oh hey heidi stop the press i do here now obviously so so that's one thing you could definitely do number two you got to take action see there's law of attraction law a law of attraction kendra's law of

action i was getting extraction action exception but they're both accident very slow you try to put onto the universe look i want 1 million dollars 1 million dollars one minute guys and then you sit on the couch and watch tv that's not gonna get you 1 million dollars right law of inertia states a body at rest tends to stay at rest but a body in

motion tends to stay in motion you got to take action you got to get into action every day look think about these uncomfortable phone calls needs uncomfortable prospects and there's people on your friend list and you're like too chicken shit to hit up you don't mean like you have this fear time to get over that and hit up your chicken

list right right take action every day like don't go to sleep you okay you get from an active play ball with being uncomfortable yes no i stick a retro comfortable with being uncomfortable it just came off wrong like i was trying to kind of like what you do when you say it i know five conversations every single day right five conversations that you

start every day through text message phone call facebook messenger whatever that will help you get out of your situation and again personal development 30 minutes at a minimum what book are you reading right now drop into the chat let's give all the viewers some ideas of what all these other amazing entrepreneurs are

reading or listening to 30 minutes a day what book are you reading right now are you going to write words are audible okay i like a lot of like elizabeth courses about that like i love my gosh you guys there's a lot of you that i see there were on my double tasking video so all of us have time during the day to kind of feed on mind right just like you

feed your body you gotta feed your mind why not double task like why not do your makeup and listen to your personal development so why live and our life yeah right why choose oh should i eat or should i listen to personal development like why not do an and life so you eat and you feed your life like you double that you double task like that makes

sense to me i'd like to say much you love it golfin l is an amazing volcano tea yet rock your network marketing business awesome great ideas i did you're a badass the other day i like it my love it bulk yeah universe has your back lots of great books yeah right now i feel like some ideas for what do we just go ahead and go through the

comments like donna's gold right now yeah okay so you know and i think ultimately you have to take responsibility right take responsibility for your life take responsibility for what happened so far even if it's like negative stuff that other people did i mean i get it but like time to move on right stop dwelling in the past right

you know stop being so hard on yourself so what if you're you have a speech impediment so what if you don't have the best reputation so what have you been in nineteen businesses and none of them worked out so what if you suck at video right so what it is what it is yeah work on it improve or stop stop bitching about it right stop dreaming okay that's

better i'll just say stop that shit about it but i'll try to avoid saying curse words but it's a little late so it's all good the bottom line is if you have big goals big dreams here's how you know you need to be successful here's how you know you want to be successful you like nice stuff right you like nice watches nice shoes you like to travel a

nice cars nice restaurants nice food right you like all the nice people what's up from those friends all the nice seat bones and then so anyway on a serious note we care about you we want you to win our right we they don't want you to win but you're going to win anyway right dj khaled drop in though so and by the way

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know 48 hours gone forty dollars it's alright guys we love you thank you for tuning in thank you but no high five virtual high five fist bump deuces