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there are no hard and fast rules of how youshould discipline your child. though parenting skills are equipped with all parents automatically,the level of the effectiveness varies according to the parenting styles applied by the parents. there are many books and classes about parentingstyle and which method to follow. authoritarian, permissive, and democratic are the three maintypes. authoritarian is considered to be a very strictway of disciplining. parents are always right. parents have full control over children. permissive parenting style is the total oppositeof authoritarian parenting style. the control lies with the children. no rules and regulationsto follow. children are free to do anything

they want. if authoritarian is considered to be blackand permissive is white, then democratic is gray. democratic parenting style is actuallythe combination of both styles joined together. so why is gray better than white or black? this style of parenting involves a lot ofcommunication and mutual understanding from both partners. there are rules and regulationswhich your child has to follow but you do listen and let them speak their minds. whenyou tell them wrong, be sure to give them the reason of why it is wrong and unacceptable. if there is going to be punishment involved,make sure they know why. this type of parenting

brings everyone together. you are giving yourchildren respect and they will reciprocate. you together with your child will be ableto handle conflicts in a better way. if they are right and you are wrong - say sorry. itis alright for parents to be wrong sometimes. your children will learn to think by themselveswhile being monitored by parents. you are not limiting their creativity, mind, thoughtsand passions in any way. you are simply guiding them. they will learn to become dependentwithin the boundaries that you have set for them. these rules and regulations should be flexiblewhen needed to be. for instance, as your child grows and faces new experiences and situationsin life, your disciplining method changes

but the core of it remains. one other thing i learned about the democraticstyle is there is lots of love and affection involved. you are constantly bonding withyour child. besides the fact that your child is going to grow up to be a well-behaved adultwith good attitude, your child will be close

to you and will think of you positively. thebest part is your child will consider you to be on his side and will be one of the first,if not first, person he thinks of when he faces challenges in life. to learn more about democratic parenting style,click the link below this video now!