parenting podcast

i'd love to hear from you guys just like what areas ofparenting and what things in parenting has caused the most like conflict on your marriage like what hasbeen the most stressful, nils, i'd love to hear from you. yeah. i think it is that i don't like tactical aspects of parenting where you know if we went into parenting we both arelike we want to travel a lot with our kids. we want to stay active. we want to create aneducational experiences as unique for our kids. we philosophically with how we wanted to raise kids was was very similar. but then you know then you have a kid and yourealize this unbelievable stress of what do you let them cry it out. do they cry it out? today do you spank, you don't spank.

do you, you know, what level of patience do youhave as they act out and there are so many like day-to-day things that you don't realize and you don't realize that even philosophically if we want to raise in a certain way there are so many day-to-day aspects of parenting that are can be in opinionated or even do you feed them this or when do you start feeding solid food, hold food. these are you know just so manyaspects of parenting that you can do. you're not gonna agree on everything andyou can't be on the same page with everything. you don't have enough time. nobody has enough time to talk to every single issue you're going to face with your kids and that's where i think obviously ongoing heavy open

communication is the best thing you have butthere's no way you can have perfect you know preparation for how you're going to address every singletactical issues when it comes to raising your kids. yeah. that's such a great point. it's true.it's like you have to make a million decisions a day and it's even more stressfulbecause you're making them for someone else. it's like one thing like make a decisionon what you're gonna eat for breakfast,

what you're going to do and when you're going to the gym, when you're going to work, and stuff like that but it's like you're making them for other beings who you're in responsiblefor it so much for the pressure. yeah that is so much that's good.