Friday, June 30, 2017

parenting in the digital age


meet safely! 2 whether you're nowwatching me on the pc, notebook, netbook, video,or cell phone, l greet you. lt doesn't even matter,what day it is today, what time it isand actually where you are. lt's very important thatyou found your way to me. what you're going to see now is not a game,not another part of series or a movie. now you can'tshut down you laptop or reach for the remotecontrol and turn it off.

the danger, which isalready around you, can never be turned off. and the only chanceyou have right now, is to be well prepared. we ended the first partof our movie right here - in the server room of seznam. back then l hoped that everything would change and l have to say that it reallyhaven't remained the same.

the reality is much worse,even ahead of us actually. where there is demand,there is also offer. we have severaltens of those cases, there are aroundfifty of those children in the evening andabout ten of hunters. those hunters can actuallyeasily choose who they fancy and who they actually wantto have that evening at home. what you can only guess on the screenare those servers around full of. and if you go to any chator social networking site,

then you can see all of it- that means not blurred. and what really is shocking- except perverts who are tryingto catch you on the web, on those videos and photosyou will find your peers who are fighting for those pervertsand offer themselves to them. we'll get soon to all that they arewilling to do for a couple of crowns. but let's startfrom the beginning. to protect self and be safe- that's actually mainly what's going on both on thelnternet and in the real life as well.

lt doesn't meanthat we have to give up the adrenalinethat attracts us. since childhood we havelearned that before we cross the road we have to carefullylook around. and actually it is exactly the sameon the lnternet. to be safe, it's enough to remembera few simple but important rules. before you befriendsomeone on the lnternet you should make surethat the person really is the onewho he claims to be.

for example ask himto send you a photo with your name andtoday's date written on a paper. lf he does that then you knowthat the person on the other side is the one with whomyou'll chat. and if he has no camera, make him takea photo with his cell phone a send it to you or ask him to showhimself on the webcam. almost everyone hasthese options nowadays. but if he startsto make excuses that it's impossible for some reason,stop the conversation with him.

this person is mostlikely a totally someone else than he claims. this advice is so goodthat even those standing on the other side of the barrierhave adopted it. those, who are willing to pay youfor the nude photos. they're very carefuland they also need to know that they reallycommunicate with you and not for instancewith your dad or the police. and in this innocentand quiet way it begins.

hi, l'm ---, l'mmaking this video for you to believe me thatl'm real. bye marty. who has never experienced this then heprobably doesn't know what kind of fear a parent is experiencingat that moment when you feel a personon the other side that could actually hurt your sonif he wouldn't announce it. workers of the seznamcompany turned to us that they were contacted by a fatherof a fourteen year old boy who was approached on a chat by an adultman who began to entice him to meetings.

fourteen year olddavid is an ordinary boy. most of the dayhe spends at school and because he loves hockey healso spends a lot of time on ice. on the lnternet he looks for information,entertainment and contact with friends. when there was an offer of a part-timejob a few months ago he decided thatit's worth trying. l was online and a manor a boy wrote there, l do not know who it was... so he wrote there if anyonewants to earn some money.

so l told myself yeah,some money would come in handy. so l replied him you know,and then l started writing with him. and you thought it wassome kind of a part-time job? well, only somewhere,maybe something selling. l asked him what is it and hesaid that it's some photo shoot. as l didn't knowwhat he meant, so l wrote to him:what kind of photo shoot? and he was like, some,that he would take some photos of me being somewhere in the woodsor something like that.

l said that maybe it wouldn't bethe best idea in the woods. he looked like someone who takesphotos for living and he wanted to see how did the person who wouldshoot the t-shirts or sweatshirts look. and you thought that it wassomething like commercial photos? well, something like for a magazineor something like that, l thought it could be something special,that l could even become famous. so it caught my attentionand l continued chatting with him. after two weeks of communication he justsaid that he would like to do nude photos. he was writing me,but l didn't react to it.

l just seemed weird to me, l didn't not knowthis man and l wouldn't show myself to him. and was that somekind of a sex chat? no, it was like a normalone for minors that l found there, like for children, or for some fifteenor sixteen years old ones. he wanted firstphotos of me and didn't believethat l was a child. so he kind of wanted to verify it,to take a photo of me. so then l did it but hestill didn't believe me

that it is really me,so then l had to make a video even. that photo was like,that l took a photo of me and wrote on a papermarti and like a nickname which he hadon the chat. and the video was that l shotmyself in the bathroom topless. and didn't you find it strangethat he wanted it to be in bathroom? lt was weird, but he wanted itfrom me like this. so l did like that. - and you still thought it wasfor the commercial, right? - well, yeah. hi, l am ---, l ammaking this video here for you

to believe me that l 'm real.bye marty. the person concerned is very wellprotected in the lnternet's environment in a way that he requiresan immediate response from his victim. he wants the boy to send him some of hisphotos immediately where he wants to clarify that the photo is truly his, is taken on that day at a giventime and he refuses to wait. then it started to seemlittle weird to me so l spoke to my dad and he kind of began to dosomething about it.

l wanted to find outwho is on the other side. so l continuedwith the communication but also turned to the seznamcompany simultaneously with the fact that a pressure on the chatis being done on his son and seznam thencontacted the police. reasons why the police should startdealing with that case are very clear because that adult givesproposals to make a photo shoot with sexualovertones. the one who doesn't announcea crime like this or doesn't spoil it,

is criminallyresponsible as well. so the father did the rightthing that he reported it. absolutely. lt's not about putting awayhis child and being glad that he actuallyreally saved him. one must always be reasoning thatthe other children are endangered. now we received a message from himthat he would like to contact us on skype. he would like to see us and alsohe would show himself to us as well. the man took the bait. during that communication he toldus about himself a lot of things

that will lead to hisfurther identification. and how much moneydid he actually offer you? 2.000 czk. but l don't thinkthat he would give them to me anyway. l'm convinced that if the child'sfirst sexual experiences are actually connectedwith a commercial behavior, sexual behavior for money,then it's very dangerous and it can affect the sexuallives of young people. based on the experiencewe have, we think we think that we couldsuccessfully close the case,

take that person into custodyand bring him to justice. ln a case where we don't manageto catch the offender red-handed and if it is a known offender, than it's actually necessaryto let him know the charge, prosecute himfor what is available and if it is proved that it actuallyis a crime or particularly serious crime than the punishmentfor the crime of sexual abuse is from one to eight yearsin the very first paragraph. l hope in the fact that itwill somehow be managed to end

so that this man won'tthreaten other children. because l thinkthat he's capable of committing things thatl don't even want to think about. david's story isfar from being rare. cases of sexual harassment and dangerousblackmailing of boys and girls on the lnternet increase everymonth and parents, teachers and childrenthemselves turn to the police. nowadays we alsosee cases where the offender falls into beinga rough and violent.

this means that he approaches the childand wants the materials right away. lf you don't givethem to me l'll hurt you. l have the datafrom your computer. lt's important that a citizen,especially parent, teacher, or a person who hasthe children in custody should know that if theyget to know something about what we'retalking about, that means for instanceif there is a suspicion of abused child which leads to the productionof pornography, or sexual abuse,

then he is obligedto report it. although nowadays we can'timagine our life without the lnternet and being onlineis basically normal, we must still rely on the factthat there are people who can moveon the lnternet very easily to get what they want and they are alwaysone step ahead. we call these peoplethe social engineers. social engineering is based on the factthat the one pretends being a child

and wheedles photos out of those minors,invites them to a webcam chat, or somehowmotivates them to send him some intimatematerials or information. then it may happenthat you post on facebook that you're going on vacation and whenyou return your apartment has been robbed. people on the socialnetworks post whatever and of course the kidsdo the same as well. and so the offendermakes an exact picture of who they chat withand he already knows

whom he deals with,where he lives, what he likes, what his friends like, what kindof a relationship with parents he has. such a social engineerhas a sophisticated system that he constantlyimproves. he systematically collects our data,knows our weaknesses, and thus knowswhere to attack. for example, if you write about yourselfthat you like riding a bike, he will certainly communicatewith you as a great lover of cycling. and at the momentwhen you decide to meet him,

you find yourselfon a very thin ice. shortly, one of the mainproblems on the lnternet still remains the fact that wedon't know who do we communicate with. but l want to showyou how to verify one's profile on socialnetworks or other web services. you can verify it in many ways,for example through ''my ld''. that is a service through which youcan log in to various web servers. each user who opensan account ''my ld'' has to go throughseveral levels of verification

to prove that he really exists,and for others it proves that he's reallythe one who he claims to be. lt works in a way that you verify yourprofile through logging in to ''my ld''. then you have an asterisk or othersymbol on your profile which shows that it's verifiedand everyone else who sees yourprofile will be sure that you aren't justsome virtual person. lf you're getting to know someone,than look on the profiles of those who contact youfor an asterisk

or other symbol which showsthat the profile is verified. one of these so called''engineers'' abused many boys. as it turned out,non of those boys was a gay. despite this fact he was ableto abuse them sexually anyway. and that he did it justbecause he liked children a lot? so listen to how he wastalking about them with his friend. we found out that thereis an older man in prague 5 who takes boys into his apartment,gives them some food there, cigarettes and even alcohol.

that he behavesvery nicely, talks to them, studies with them,plays with them, but he basically graduallyadapts them this way up to the level where he hasrequirements for them to do what he wants. he had a sophisticatedsystem and we, of course with judge's permission,tapped his phone. these children who get on the bus,go into different schools, so there is fucking a lot of them,you know. - l see. man wouldn't have to do anythingthan just stand there,

- and hand out cigarettes.- well, just smoke. someone wouldalways appear. they actually felt very wellat his place because he pretty much provided them with everythingthat their parents failed to give them. he was seeking for their textbooks,explaining misunderstood topics and those children enjoyed mostlythe fact that unlike their parents, who just askedthem how was school, while basically not beinginterested in the answer, so all that was reallyinteresting for him.

you could really have a niceconversation with him. and later on when we startedsmoking with the guys, he offered us, gave uscigarettes and over time, like a bit sooner, he gave us,he said, if we want coke then we can add a bitof rum, but no more. - and was it really rum?- lt was rum. once he was on a boathunting sharks and whatever. at home he hada well-equipped bookshelf, and then therewere such things like,

we can say, like artifacts,for instance a shark jaw. - l really had such a confidence in him.- even after you knew that... ? - hmm. - yeah. so you're notafraid of him, nothing like that? no, not at all! he was taking photos of these boyseither scantily clad or even naked. we found even photoswhere they inserted some itemsinto the anus and so. have you everbeen to his place? - yeah, twice. - what were youdoing when you were in his apartment?

- he was telling me something.about football. - about football? he knows a lotabout football? well yeah, he used to belike a referee or something. - who painted this?- l did. . you painted this? and whatdoes it mean? well, because he wanted to knowwhere l have my practices. and what aboutthe phone? - that's my phone. - likeyour cell phone you mean? - yeah. - and what's this?- well, that's when l have the practices.

has he ever done anything which wouldmake you feel uncomfortable? - no, no. - never ever?you couldn't complain about him? - no, he has never done anything to me.- he's a decent man right. all right. this is all in the family,child prostitution, you know. give a grand dudeand l'll lend you my dick. lf not for a thousandthen for a hundred. so he lends you his dickfor a hundred. excellent. and here at your place he drinksa coke with rum, you know dude, in his thirteen,yeah you understand,

cigarettes, beer, yeah. they're just scum.this scum is all around us. like when carcasssticks on to you, dude. you don't comeacross a nice animal. by not rushingand manipulating them like this, he basically started there like...like ancient times, where athletes were naked and youwouldn't probably manage to it right here, l do not know...roll over naked, or do some exercisewithout clothes.

a little bit of alcoholsometimes helped it. he just said that miragave him a blowjob... lt's not probably quite commonin this age to give blowjobs, right? no, but it was okay with me because l was reallyjust chatting with him. did they somehow explainto you why they were doing it? because he gavethem money for it. ln fact, they wereembarrassed themselves for not agreeing with the oralsatisfaction from him,

even if some of themwere later ashamed of having sexwith a man and of course they tried to erasethis trauma out of their life. l cannot even imagine how suchan adult guy can offer this to a boy. can you describe it to me in detail,what did he say to you or in which situation? l don't know how would l describe it... well, hardly would lcome and say pavel: ''lf you blow mel'll give you 10 czk''? or something... that's probably not right,it wouldn't be said like that?

how was it back then?can you remember? he said something about david that he is a cool guy and got used to it so far. so if by chance lwant something as well. how did you react? l said yeah, like twice. - you agreed? - hmmm. and did it happen? unfortunately yes.

- how was he doingit to you? - orally. polã¡äek ended up in policehandcuffs just on time. lt turned out that he hadchosen only a nine year old boy. fortunately he didn't manageto realize what he had planned. he's in prison for abuse of 15 boys. he's imprisoned dueto no self-reflection which means recognizingbehaving badly and illegally, so that the court expertsand the court would order a protective sexologytreatment via constitutional form.

the most dangerous is whenthe child is invited somewhere, that meansinto a closed space. come to me - and then theysay for instance to the studio, we will shoot art photosor something like that. every child should realize this,that when he's invited somewhere where the door shut behind him,then he's really trapped. now l will introduce to youa man who is a pedophile. he has known it about himselffor a long time so far but found the courage to admithis illness and treat self.

to know more who you cancome across on the web, but mainly, to know what hethinks about when he's writing to you and even a little bit of whatis he counting with, he decided to revealhis face. meet mr. m. so the first time l feltit was when l was thirteen. back then l got attractedby young kids and so. ln fact my early diagnosiswas actually pedophilia, l am sexually attracted to littleand teenage girls actually. gradually l began to developsadomasochism.

by that time l didn'tdo anything about it until l turned fourteen and actuallycommitted my first offence. can you tellus what was it? sexual abuse,groping and so. - how old was that little girl?- she was five. miroslav alreadyserved his sentence and now undergoestreatment on sexology. he believes thathe'll learn how to live with his sexual orientationwithout harming children.

his open testimony about whatthe practices on the lnternet are just proves that the pedophiles know howto take advantage of children's inexperience. l have been using the lnternetfor a long time by now. there is actually high intimacy,a real one, anything can happen there. boys and girls can sendanything to each other, intimate photosand so on. so for pedophile it isquite risky to meet someone, but he just cannotbe tracked there. - ls it a paradise?- yes it is, exactly.

do you also knowsome other pedophiles? do you communicatetogether? because l was told that there issome kind of a community as well... - of course there is.- so tell me about it. well there is sadomasochisticcommunity where many pedophileswith this orientation go. l have somecontacts, yeah. some of them are form prague,some from liberec, some from brno. we write to each other all the time,exchanging opinions and so on.

each one extends theircollection of images, we send them to each other,exchange and so on. the very becomming closerto someone who was not yet fifteen, let's say during chatting,has a great value for a pedophile. we began to writeto each other. how school is, what hishobbies are and so on. can you say that this interactionalready kind of satisfied - and excited you?- yes of course. but usually it doesn'tend with exchanging e-mails.

there are girls like,what you offer them, they accept and do pretty muchanything for it. - so for example taking a picturecompletely naked? - exactly! - make some posturesperhaps? - of course. they are just capableof doing anything. you know pedophiledoesn't only have to hunt there. this is how it goesthere by itself. so l had over 300pictures of this kind. does it mean 300 girls?

and you were chargingthem their credit? or how did youget these pictures? yes l was just chargingthem their credit. for 500 czk, 200 czk, 300 czk. how old was theyoungest one there? the youngest onewas nine years old. the offender has a greatpower over the child because he can blackmail himand then force him to action which very often endswith a sexual abuse.

lf you are surprised and maybe frightenedas well with how easy it is for the hunters on the lnternet then you mayconsider holding on to something now. lt is now easier for themthan ever before. even here at seznameveryone knows that a person who wantsto have sex with minors not only doesn't stand by the schoolwith a pack of candies but also doesn't even have to huntchildren on the lnternet himself. now it is enoughfor him to just choose from the range of thosewho offer themselves.

now we will play the old wellknown game: blindman's buff. but blindfolded willnot be any of the hunters who sit by the computer andhunt for their prey on the net. blindfolded willbe some of you. precisely those whoweren't eighteen yet but still, the sex with much olderadult is not unfamiliar to them. maybe they justseek for adventure, maybe they want to discoversomething unknown, but usually theyjust need money.

now for a moment we willpretend to be those adults who are willing to payfor sex with a minor and our one and only conditionwill be for it to happen today already. we wrote politely that we're offeringa quick one-time job for 2.000 czk. that can be any kind of job.we didn't write that we're looking for sex and many people contacted uswith questions about the job's nature - and then we wrote...- lt is actually about sex. from those 20 people thenthree to five contact me that they would be interested in the joband want to know about its conditions.

can one assume that the childrenrespond to the word one-time job with knowing that it'sactually of sexual nature? well it's not very usualthat someone in a room for children would beoffering a one-time job. l think there are totallydifferent web pages for that. so they probably assume that it won't be such an easyjob for those 2.000 czk. lt won't probablybe a mcdonald's job. so, we were contactedby few people.

jarda wrote to us thathe's sixteen years old what kind of photowe want from him? completely naked,of course. 500 czk was his own offer.that is his price for the photo. we are waiting if hereally sends some. did the photo come? the photo just arrived. so, sixteen year old boy just sent us a nakedphoto of himself from his cell phone camera. now, in this moment...

ln this moment l havehis cell phone number. so, l can basicallyblackmail him with this photo and if l like the boy l just send him some photofrom the web and he will continue, maybe even dosome photo series. - he thinks that l am 45 years old.- and that l am a woman? so being a woman l'll writehim that he is very good-looking. - we'll write him if he wouldgo for it... - for how much? for how much?for 5.000 czk.

for 5.000 czk. so, after the offer of 5.000 czk he asksfor a photo of me and that he will see then. eventually hemade up his mind and so we're now standing in a parkinglot in a shopping center and waiting. on the contrary he isexpecting a 45 year old woman and 5.000 czkfor having sex with her. he is standing rightthere because we agreed on a secret signal which wasa black and white scarf. so we're going to ask if it'sreally him and why is he doing this.

hey, hi. can weask you something? - what? what for? - are youwaiting here for somebody? a lady? yes l am. the lady won't come and you won'teven get those promised 5.000 czk. l just want to askyou why you do this. why do you sellyourself for money? wait. and is it a firsttime you are doing this? just come here and tell us.ls it a first time? he risks and risksbecoming a victim.

that he reallywill let himself lure and pay for itwith life or health, or just even that the photowill be misused. even if the guy on the other sidetells them that he's not recording it, he is recording it. he isrecording it and he will spread it further. lt was not a big persuasionand he arrived. by the way we still have that photo of himnaked as well as the cell phone number and now we can startplaying - blackmailing him. however we can also wait couple of yearsand use it at the time he expects it the least.

now we'll try it one more time.this time we won't write anything. we will justwatch and choose. now we're in a room for childrenmonitoring the conversation and just waiting for somegirl to offer herself. so what time is it? lt's halfpast three in the afternoon. how does it look out there?do we see someone already? by the way how do werecognize that she offers herself? so there is a girl writing under nicknamebbarca96: ''someone for now, prague?'' l am writing herhow she means that.

yes, this way we makesure that she means sex? so she replies that it'soral sex in prague right now. either l'll answer heror she'll ask someone else. try to answer her.we're taking the first one. ask her how much would sheprovide us that oral sex for? how much? and thenl'll ask how old she is. so how much shevalues herself? l am waitingfor her to reply. so it's 500 czk in my car.l'll ask her how old she is.

she replies that she'ssixteen and has long blond hair. so we'll answer her that wereally want to meet in about one hour. at andä›l. ln one hour at andä›l? yes. she replies that we'llmeet in front of the entrance. lt seems that barafollowed the agreement and came. lt seems that she'sstanding over there. so we're going to askher couple of questions.

lt seems that it's really her.she has glasses on her cap. l will go ahead. hi, hey you are baräa right? - yep. - we were writing to eachother about an hour ago. ls that right? yep, that's right.but what's the camera doing here? hey don't worry about it.don't worry about anything. our deal is 500 czk,you'll get it ok? hey, l will pixelate your face.we just want to ask you something. ls it possible that you wouldanswer me couple of questions?

- just couple of questions.- well ok. to be leveled with you, we agreed on havingsex for 500 czk. - how old are you actually?- well l'm sixteen. for how long haveyou been doing this? for about twoor three years. about two or three years? - and what do you do exactly?- well that's non of your business. ok sure. but for sure youdo that thing we agreed on.

- how often do you do it?- as oftes as l need the money. l just make a dealand go for it. - well, and isn't 500 czk little?- no, it's enough for me. we block about 30 to 50 of thesepeople every day and one could say that it's mostly at timeswhen they're coming from school and after 8 p.m.or closely to 1 a.m. for about past two yearsit has been a phenomenon which takesan adult by surprise. a girl who looks likeinnocence itself comes

and l've learned to ask herif she has her internet profile and if she canshow it to me. yes she has her profile but it'spassword protected so l will turn around. l turn around,she opens her profile and suddenly you see that a girlfrom 7th grade has erotic photos which can clearly belabeled as pornography and down there it says''hobbies: oral sex, anal sex.'' l say, what do youhave written here? my friends said thatit's normal to write it there.

and now actually you havea victim right in front of you and you start wonderingif not an offender also a little. l'll now introduce patrik to you.lt's not his real name and he doesn't want to show us his face.he has his reasons for it. he also tried it once and offeredhimself on the lnternet for money. he was thirteen at the time.today he's sixteen and he's been doingthis for 4 years already, but the money haven'tbrought him happiness. my whole supply whichl had before has shrunk

- branded clothes, newcell phones, nothing at all. l couldn't goon school field trips, ski courses, engage in anyfree time activity, nothing. and then it actually came to a stagewhen l got bullied at school for being an idiot who doesn't evenhave any branded clothes and so on. and right at that moment l simply toldmyself that l could probably try it, yeah. one evening a man wrote to meif we could meet the next day. he has filled in being33 years old, just a man. he sent me a photo wherehe looked completely normal,

so l just told myself,well why not. so we set up a meetingin a shopping center. and he simply told me that he wouldgive me 4.500 czk for having sex with him. l didn't know when, he said right now.so we went to his home. he told me that he is only attractedby boys around 13 years of age, and that he doesn't think that heis some kind of a pedophile, or so. l was a virgin. after it was like - when l lefthis place for the first time, then l was like, not reallyfeeling downright nasty, or so,

but l just wasn't imaginingmy first time this way. for the first time l thoughtthat l'd like to do it with someone whol really liked. well, that didn't happen,l can't change that. l knew that l would continue doing itjust because l knew... l don't know... l wanted those shoes,l wanted new jacket, l knew that thosecost something. well yeah, it was a nasty feeling.but all the time l had a vision that l would fitin and have friends.

every month l reallyhad about 15 - 16.000 czk. out of that l was giving my mom 5.000 czk,like secretly putting a thousand in her wallet. l don't know if didn'toccur weird to her or what. the relationship with my mom is basicallyat the level of, hi, hi how school, good... like, being more interestedin each other that's not the case. my dad, l haven't seen himsince l was two years old. patrik has been selling himselffor two years. he had the money but his vision of happinessand satisfaction hasn't been fulfilled. when he was sixteen he receiveda hard hit - even harder for patrik

because it came from a clientwho meant to him much more than a stablesupply of money. l really liked him.l'm not sure if l loved him, but l just had this kindof relationship with him. well, and when hehasn't written to me for about three weeksl decided to write him myself. and he simply told meto just go fuck myself and that l was oldalready and so on. at the age of sixteen, patrik hasbeen spending weekends with a client

who had wife and two kids back home.his income decreased by half and the client wouldn'tprobably be interested in him soon. l imagine it like this,when l turn eighteen, l'll try to find somenormal part-time job and when it becomes certainfor me then l'll quit this. one can believein miracles but from the life stories l've seen,it doesn't seem very likely. for example, look among the homelesspeople how many former prostitutes there are and nobody wantsthem anymore.

then they really end upsomewhere literally like a trash. l still sometimes have this feelingthat l'm kind of inferior to other people. like some miserable creature, like some junkieat a train station or something. but on the other handl keep saying to myself that it just isworth the money. lt's very important for himto learn to wake up early, keep on to someregular lifestyle and to start working.

l'm afraid thatl won't like the job itself, there will be less money,right, yeah for sure. and also l'm afraid that itwill keep me from doing something, some other jobthat l want to do. you know, this kind of thingdefinitely influences a person for ever. also probably because of that l may haveruined the relationship with my mother. when l didn't even want moneyfrom her then we totally alienated. you know, the worst thing thatcan happen is when a person lives without loveand trust to someone else.

you just don't trust anyoneand that's something terrible. l'm alone. lt's the prostitution behavior which alwaysdegrades and damages the personality. and the imaginationof a stellar perspective after that person quitsis also quite naive l think. l think that the greatest prevention is to haveparents being interested in their children. just have an honest relationship with them.and also for the child to know that it can simply come to the parentsand entrust them with everything. all the problemsthe child has.

does all of this seema little far-fetched to you? on the lnternet thishappens on a daily basis. even at this moment youcan get involved in it. now you'll see barbora whodidn't believe it's that simple. barbora is an adult woman but whenshe used to work as an editor, she looked like a fourteen year old.so she pretended to be a girl and gave herself nickname natã¡lka,who wants to earn money by providing sex. she stressed that she hasn't been fifteen yetand she couldn't heve been more surprised. the response surprised usbecause it was very intense.

within half an hourthis fictitious natã¡lka had her e-mail box full of veryvulgar disgusting photos. those photos that we werereceiving in the e-mail box, l mean us - the fourteen year old girl, were usually naked. there were men's genitalsall over the photo and a face somewherein the background. despite her stressing thatshe hasn't been fifteen yet, she got quite brutally and vulgarlycontacted by one man.

he claimed thathe was 27 years old and he wanted to set up a meetingfor the purpose of having sex. he offered natã¡lka2.000 czk for... ... doing him a blowjob. she kept communicating with himfor a while to make sure that he was really interestedand that it wasn't just some prank or pretended interest. then shecontacted the police immediately. lt was kind of fair playin a way that she basically wasn'toffering anything,

you know something like,l'm thirteen and want to get to know sexor something, no. he simply attacked herright there over the lnternet. we evaluated the informationand then set up a meeting. fourteen year old natã¡lka was waitingin front of the shopping center and then he arrived. he was nicely dressedand arrived in a shiny expensive car. he certainly wasn'ta kind of person, who l imagine needs to searchfor contacts of this kind.

he didn't want to talkthere to me at all and immediatelydragged me to the car. come on, come on,natã¡lka, let's go. let's get ouf here.let's go. and he didn't want to talk to me at all.he took off and went away. that man was surprised. he didn'tknow he could have been arrested. lmmediately he began to arguethat he wanted to upbring her better, that she shouldn't be meetingunknown men and so on. l'm absolutely convincedthat if we weren't there

he would have justtaken the girl along and drove her somewhere out of pragueand god knows what would happen. because of course,l have experinces that these kind of meetingoften turn out tragically. there are only a fewtruly real pedophiles. however amongthese offenders there are many morenormal heterosexual men who just kind of want tovariegate their sexual life by abusing minors,youth and even children.

they are usually people who havetheir normal heterosexual history, relationship, partnership,often live are married, and yet because of somesort of debauchery they want to improvetheir sexual life. lf there is any defenseagainst these phenomena then perhaps only this one - neveranswer any contact or invitation for meeting. we should start thinking why this strangerwants to contact me. why does he wantto meet me so much?

and so, if l decide for myselfto go to that meeting then l should followsome basic rules like: never go there alone, have the meeting in a publicarea and so on. the man who actually set upthe sex meeting with bã¡ra will stay a manof mystery. we can't showyou his face. the fact that hewanted to have sex with a fourteen yearl oldis impossible for us to prove.

at the court he argued he didn'tbelieve that natã¡lka really was fourteen and even if she was then hewould have just warned her. yes, you can hear correctly, he wouldgive her 2.000 czk and send her home. lf the offender doesn'tcommit any concrete action which could be classifiedas a criminal offense, in this casesexual abuse, than he can't be hold criminaly responsible.the preparation is not a crime though. the only chance is,when the children notice us or give an echo and helpfind and identify such a person.

because he will be trying the samething on others until he succeeds. until eighteen yearsof age this young person is protected by a varietyof special safeguard mechanisms. he or she can testifyas a secret witness, under fake name, doesn't have to attendto the court, the testimony can bejust read and so on. so all we need is onlyto assure the children that the law remembersthem very well

and they can be greatlyand effectively protected. you can alwaysmake a mistake but it's never too late to make it up. even if you think thousand times that it's impossible, believe me it is always possible. even when you send one or maybemore erotic photos to someone, you can always findsomeone who can help you.

there is no such situationwhich wouldn't have a solution but you can'tmake it on your own. and if you don't dare to confide to yourparent, friends or teachers at school then you should visit the webpage''seznamsebezpecne.cz''. and we'll directyou further. seznam operates services which basically cover mostof the lnternet's population, that means 6 to 7 million people.and it's very clear that among these there are also some,who abuse the lnternet

which means thatthey try to attack, rob or misuse the dataof it's users. seznam.cz is not afraidof blocking these users even though it's onlya needle in a haystack but we want the lnternetto be the first choice and be safer not only for adultsbut for children as well. the lnternet is anothergreat invention of humanity. the only thing about itis that it's like a fire it's a great servantbut a horrible master.

and so, never let itgrow over top of your head.

parenting in the digital age

but don't beafraid of it as well. wheter through the lnternetyou look for friends, love or job, alwaysbe one step ahead of it and act as the mastersof the situation.�

parenting groups


the two musts of parenting are; always tolabel irresponsibility as irresponsibility and going hand in hand with that, always beinga good role model for our kids. now, always labeling irresponsibility as irresponsibilityis really, really important. kids will ask parents questions that they know the answerto. and the main reason they ask those questions is because they want to test to see if theirparents are going to give them responsible answers. if the parents give an answer thatisn't responsible, then the kid can't really trust that asking a question or presentinga scenario where they don't know the answer, then they trust that they are going to geta straight answer from their parents. now, the way to always give good responsible answerscomes in either two forms; either you can

actually label it period, that is just notthe way to do it. or as i used to do when i worked with street kids and they tell meabout the latest slick hist they did from some store is make some off hand comment like,i am sure i still have my jail pass so i can visit you the next time you are not quietso slick. now, the second thing that comes, goes right along with this is always actingresponsibly and acting as a good role model for your kid. the must is always being a goodrole model for your teens. now, do as i say and not as i do, doesn't work anything andit certainly doesn't work with your teens. it always have to be walking the walk as wellas talking the talk. and teens look at things in black and white, there are no gray's. so,sitting by and watching tv, watching a football

game and knocking down a six pack of beer,even though you are not going to drive for the rest of the night, a teen sees you dothat and figures knocking down a six pack of beer is fine only they are going to doit while they are driving. you smoking a joint socially at a cocktail party, teens will thenextrapolate into smoking joints is good, even during school. so it is real important thatyou step back sort of look at yourself in what you are doing from up above and say isthis in black and white what i want my teen to be doing? if it is not, then don't do it.if my father could choke down liver every wednesday night while we were growing up sowe wouldn't grow up with a liver bias. you can also obstane from your goodies for thesake of your kids. i am jason wittman, thank

you very much for being my guest here at expertvillage as i told you about some of my techniques for being a very, very good parent. if youwould like more information about what i do

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as a coach, coaching parents of teenagers,you can find me at theparentscoach.com. i have a weekly free parenting round table,on the telephone i do parenting groups and i coach individuals, i also have a wonderfulblog where you can more information of the kind you heard today. thanks for being here.

Thursday, June 29, 2017

parenting gone wrong


yo what up guys it's me gray and todaywe're gonna play clandestinely llc what i said was greg it's that gameif this game no other and you don't know anymore ok today played this game actually thisis my birds very video on my channel not on youtube because i have a lot of acunts lot of bullshit account i don't want tomention it does in fact she said you know what i mean ok i'll stop now so i already played this game like 30minutes or something but i wanna start

over you guys could see you guys could playwith me guess so now i'm gonna start new game let's go let's fucking go on i read this ok how long has he beensleeping i mean yeah i already played this light don't i know that there isdialogue ok how long has he been sleeping i'm not sure well he ever wake up at this

not sure if he would even want to maybeyear and on the floor or actually why wouldyou let him sleep on the floor mom ok i'll stop that's why i need to helpcoping with blood on the bed properly or else to go as he pleasant used to be what was he way is cool green ok moving on those some dialogue i'm asleeping on shit get up i shot myself you gotta go too bad i mean i am i amthing why is there a table and shared bedroom but i know and you still gottashe's going to be pissed at me again why you already pitcher so clean it up later

base camp base based menos faced therays old space basis gonna need some space ok now me too i don't need to use that rightnow well you actually should because theyare good shit your pants were you see some things around the house you know weall need those that party in our lives i don't fuckin know what i'm talking aboutjust rambling here ok now okay and we'll never know now time were back then what time is it what

what time time to take a bad said to him what was the reason for their what thefuck he and why the hell is it so dark major powers out they can go by my lastnight was probably probably in the story is probably in story that's probably abad idea no it's not what could go wrong this isnot a story i think this is the story played this thing

next to you ok 1896 well it's probably a girl out of moneyno ok let's go sometime later should go top easters ok ok ok or do the magic can wemake here that's disgusting really disgusting practice it will ever 10 properly that'swhat you would you think you can turn

everything even destiny its ok i don'tthink i could fit that ok i was not in the way you like fucking stop jacking isok hayden hayden need i am having problemswith my car can you please thanks take it looks like i'm probably has sometools in 2009 he had the juicy bill again what the hell bernie what berniedo you know how to mix juice or something value our bartender to get those tools and get the hell outof jews i don't even want to know what isin there was but it's it's a nice the

dead set up my own home without llc sheran away she ran away from me and the live is probably cuz my pants and farfrom the floor which is a powertrain you're going to help you could killyourself right now is getting a good thing goes into the bath the whole ok looks like goes into thebathroom tiles fail need only 10 that was disgusting i should brush myteeth ok whatever you do do do do do do do dodo do do do i get the plunging inside i should probably get the things they okgoing to fix my car will be you know maybe you need to the ship but i couldprobably use the tools for what

stop crying i'm here for map emotion this space 18 now take a pace and bar now ok can igo now should i go back there is a big need fucking ass would then have youbeen hatin you learn there for awhile are you alright hell ya fuckin know myabs going i've gone through a bucket in anus hole in it figures are over right even though itsmells like that ok benny was wrong goes well i've seen houses in this casethe good news is good news is i fix your car

celery must have fallen off somehowshe's all good to drive though you could pay me later i know these treatments areexpensive say to me you know something i don't okay thanks for the help me not bearound heated well fuck you too ok ok ok ok you'll get when he took i imean the tools i got the baton are gone the whole time dreaming that came totheir needs and it's because he went today that's probably why i need to stayfocused got a long drive ahead of me quite aways away from water amiens

she said she was there bill could built in buy some clothes they think this bringsback memories and this is one of the most expensive properties water yeah ibet that they are placed the pic ok it's a miracle that route has beensuccessfully i i mean that's been successful and wealthy as always he wasalways one to show his well with family and friends even to just me there's nodoubt this household is better for healthy men my apartment should check tosee if she's probably doing that with that guy just kidding

the mailboxes empty hits the fan man live wit nobody in thehell in here in miami is a bientot ok my fb is we anybody home a lot of take up poopy please give you acouple people i don't need to use them right now if this was shitting my pantsi now know people who know nothing fucking shit my pants just kidding cunningham addict and the couple bags offlour 7.6

for its full now if that's what i'mready for this kind of pull my revolver now well shit shaped going downstairsfireplace is cheating on me again like the toilet perfect match and theback has not been contained in quite some time maintained that out of the way it is i don't know why they would down herebut not even if even if it needs to tell me what a time flashlights batteries can see it beingin here clothes she wore me out since you getthrough today they probably won't be

coming home it's back to this shit again i fuck youthen sleep on my mom and again and shit my pants probably again with the money but the heli gudelay got a phone callman and he turns her as will find the red bull but all ok let's do this holy shit holy shit indeed now i have alife

parenting gone wrong

to get out of here right now must be too hitting king yes yes

right now

Wednesday, June 28, 2017

parenting goals


pat: it's the new year, time for new parenting goals, our fab mom is here to share three things you can stop doing for your kids immediately for happier and healthier household in 2017, joining us on sofa here. is garth. which is appropriate.

garth: i'm sorry, i am thinking of adopting a 26-year-old. pat: listen, garth, this is -- we're doing too much for our kids. yes, and all seriousness, hello pat, happy new year. i found this most moving piece floats on facebook last week,

called, we're killing our kids and calling it love, how we are unintintentionally, doing thing, saying things, giving things that are not contributing to developing a positive character for our kids in the long run. here is first clue to show you, one of our viewer sent in a mom,

she is holding everything under the sun, has two dogs, and pushing a stroller, stop carrying everything for the small kids, mommy can you hole hold my doll, jacket. pat: and you are carrying it, i hear you on that one. everything, and all parents

we want to take care of our kids, but at a cost. you know for young ones it is okay for us, me included. my 4-year-old, they know, if you take that doll to the restaurant of course you are holding it not me, that teaches themselve reline and responsibility.

pat: and stop making excuses for our children. yes, i was talking with a few different moms about this, i say we're making excuses, a lot of times, this happens. our kids have that child or the teacher or with the coach, there is an

issue with them, we want to stop are on the our kids -- support our kids did you at same time, as parents into this new year, let's check ourselves and be more objective, what did my kid do to incite that, maybe i need to address and help it.

pat: we know they are not perfect, it is okay if they are not perfect, that not a bad mark. pat: snr right. right. pat: you brought a clip of a popular video, millennials, in the workforce.

so i keep meeting great fantastic hard working smart kids they just graduated school, they are in their en relevel job, i sit down with them, i say how is it going, they say, i think i'm going to quit, i can ask why, they say i'm not making an impact, i say, have you been

here 8 months, everything you want you could have instantly, except job satisfaction and strength in relationships there is no app for that. that is a well said, that seem on this video from inside quest, you can find it on-line. it is also on my facebook page,

our kids are impatient. they could watch any movie at any time, listen to any song, it is not faring well whether they grow up and have to work for something at a job in college, in school. we need -- pat: and you can't always have

it at your fingerprints. you can't. true. pat: or communicate. patience, make them wait for the movie, it starts when they are young. pat: we'll start with garth too. the doctor handed me to my

mom, she handed him a restraining order. thank you, jill. you could connection with us on cbs l.a. facebook page.

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for more like this, jill with an eye opening chat of long-term benefits for parents and kids. thank you.

Tuesday, June 27, 2017

parenting funny


[opening musical interlude plays] [sound of crickets in the background] [soft footsteps] [door squeaks] [sound of footsteps becoming louder] [matt:] what are you doing out of bed? [coco:] i just think i need to read one more story. [matt:] where's your pyjamas? [coco:] i just took them off.

[matt:] you took them off?[coco:] yeah. [matt:] okay. well, go get them and bring them here, we’ll put them back on and then you got to go back to bed. [coco:] no. because i’m naked, i’m the boss. [matt:] that doesn’t actually qualify you to be the boss. [coco:] i’m the boss. [matt:] no. i’m the boss. [coco:] no. i’m the boss.

[matt:] i’m the boss. [matt:] all right, missy magoo. i think we all know who the real boss is. the real boss is the one that does the tickling. [coco laughing] [coco:] stop! [continues laughing]

parenting funny

[matt:] okay, go get your pj’s on. [coco:] okay. [closing theme music]

[captioning provided by michael lockrey]

Monday, June 26, 2017

parenting from the inside out


- part of what i've beendoing over the last 20 years is actually to offer adefinition of the mind that parents, for example,or teachers or therapists, or people working inorganizations or anyone, but in particular for parents. they could use this definition of the mind to help themselves makesense of their life and then to go out and to helptheir child develop fully. to become fully themselves,to have all these

positive benefits of secure attachments. so, in the different books i've written, they've all been synthesizingall the fields of science from mathematics and physics to biology and psychology to sociology and anthropology,all of them together into one framework andi named that framework interpersonal neurobiologybecause it meant what was happening between us,

that's the inter part,but also what's happening within us, that's the making sense part. that's the personal part. so interpersonal is boththe subjective inner feelings you have, the memories you have, the thoughts you have. but it's also what happens between us. this was what i was teaching years ago and one of my students,who, actually a person

in an audience at aworkshop, she came up to me and said "can i study with you?" and she came and studied with me. she had a little baby athome and then ultimately, she had three sons at home. she raised these three sons that way as we had been raising our kids that way. and so tina bryson who wasthat student, now a colleague, she and i wrote a bookcalled the whole-brain child

which basically teaches parents how to bring integration in their lives. you've now brought integration to yourself which is the essential starting place. how do you bring integration into your interaction with your kids so you can develop integration in their brains? and that's what thewhole-brain child is all about. that was built on topof another book which i

had to have writtenfirst and i wrote it with mary hartzell, my daughter'spreschool director, because really if you think about it, the research is very clear. you've got to start withyourself as a parent. so we wrote a book calledparenting from the inside out. how a deeperself-understanding can help you raise children who thrivewhich offers parents

parenting from the inside out

a way of step-by-step learning

how to make sense of their lives. (upbeat music) (hopeful music)

Friday, June 23, 2017

parenting from the heart


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each if you do that we're getting on one andone of the and we have are good for both get scheduled and triedbut i don't think he should have read the email arm permanent warning about the cause uh... can get pretty that during but now you'llbe able to put that question indicate there are looking at your screen and the plate she look at work uh... chap anti-tank weapons item he didn't take any question in or goout to open it up for questioning

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providing and and chapter two in dunlap part of the are webinar will be provided by don bigelow again strategiesfor independent travel review and it's very practical strategies and wereally are i think you'd be looking to move today philip and he turned over to my shitty thank you carol but so i just wanted to get a that kind of contactfor the attributes of the car that interview

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for their children sheltered integrated expectwill be complete that with the requirement that the birthing program they really don't have to meet the backgroundthe program that could put the jet did a great day practicable i don't believe in t_v_ therefore proposethat motivating model that is a calm aprox at part of their implementation and an accountingapproach it basically a model in which they are goingto happen in the document or a modified version of an evident the modeland you'll be getting more open information about that implementation etc

uh... and well and the approach of the modelthat you choose should be grounded integral tanning clerical work and have an articulatedperiod change inducted been developed by more than a fightwith or developed in competition with and national organization or institution ofhigher education and it might be developed it better not be evaluated to allow the brideand recollect you mentioned more detail itickets act and i'm gonna try to pursue believe god willgive a little bit more contact for turkey okay genetic review accompanying in armedthat to haven't done any weapon macro view is that there aren't a peerreview of any kind of program and regarding

to the judge undercutting and review if that'dbe evident german it's a little effectiveness and at the timefor whom they think etiquette the first report but or that they programmedin down very little information with found when they did that report onan mobility withamerican in alaska native those we had an additional culture study further develop intotrouble keaton nicotine either uh... reporting hearing about today from thatcall in will be focusing on that one of the matter fifty interdependent renewed serb both ofthe reports and you can go cued up move in one place to find more information about user

other information from both of these reportscan really be helpful to you as you make decisions about your competing program pitching in theway you want to evaluate it the trouble or liability will not be armyregarding event the culture retaliate company for eight million reinterpreting in strategy for building knowledge and learningabout who that in yet till than inlet so i hope is that the plot no help to bringthe travel report to life in a way that will be a really beautiful to look for your owndecision making in that what impart first going over the reportin back it will have to

providing updated reflections on how he in with an accident now three over today and talked all uh...and them high cut hair alright uh... so i'm gonna give you a briefoverview of how we conduct a debate the to end the result but i want to let you know other data protectortype that you can find more detailed explanation about the review on the home depot website so too would inform the field and also preparefor the potential for our evident bayt com

visiting initiative and fall two thousand okay are you contacted with mathematical politicrespects shikha dot the home visiting evidence of thefact of notre dame you know our home d uh... and review with carried out under theguidance of interest to test working group that included back from i'll carry the children hero that better expert debate control particularlythat division of pilot prevention and the

national tehran artefact and developmentaldisability the health report the conservative administration and the update secretary are planning evaluation so an addition to the reader that we conducted for this based program we also conducted a review of tribal homevisiting program and for the perfect at of the preview thesedefiance tribal early childhood home visiting program breakthrough ethically

and i wanted to check that our definitionclosely allied with how hurt i have to find opening for the state program for the twodefinitions are great and more first model must be implemented entitled community or included enter proportion of american indianalaska native family empathetic empl and i want to mention that included program model implemented and evaluatedoutside of the united there while there's tremendous variation between a defendant digipak genetic all with unitedbased on practical they can share similarity except traditionalculture

it darko trimethoprim connotation and helpedparity and for about three ten uh... we included program employment death in other parts ofthe world and i think that left in black from the model uh... can't actually provide that need onprobation to makati in alaska native d_d_t_ if they make decisions about competition model for their own community so the next part of the definition intactmodel target population mouth include pregnant women

our families with children from birth to agefive competent enough to you that the primary targetdelivery strategy and she prided malts are all family enrolledin the program albeit it had to be alan terry for pregnantwomen expectant father and parenting caregivers of children back to kindergarten entry model that provided services primarily andfenopy adding but that's what sample armpit were excluded because competition is not theprimary target delivery strategy

and finally com departing perfect had to betargeted to at least appliance out the eligible or alcock eligible to get that outcome include alconindi it got me which allied with the legislation so they are child health maternal health child development in school reading that family economic now efficiency

linkages that referral to other communityeverything hot but apparently bracketed production inchon archie net and reduction and juvenile delinquency familyviolence and crime all right now i'm going to very briefly describethe five steps that we followed to conduct their review instep one-week thoughts identify all potentiallyrelevant and next week creamed all of the identifiedstudies to determine whether they were appropriate for the three d_o_ in fact reached we rated the quality of thestudy

added that or yet that the evident by thefact that that for each model according to criteria established by the h_h_s_ and then in the final and that the gridview implementation attributionabout each of them out that we can identify to identify all of that potentially relevantstudy we conducted keyword searches and a wide range of research databases in addition to out the keyword that we'd usedfor the mail e out-competing review which are listed on the website

we added some additional transferred the tribalretail including try a tribal india native american kitchenette animation we also create accustomed google search engine search morethan fifty government research non-profit website a published report paper departing at the great literature analystat the website thirsty all available on the whole deal at site

and then finally and november two thousandten we take you to call for study for a researchon home visiting mild implemented in tribal communities are evaluated with american in alaska nativefamilies with children i think that that call out fixed relevantlecter and five additional growth for dissemination fell through uh... all of these differentthirteen strategy to be identified two hundred and thirteen and advocated study including five article at work submitted uh...through the call are back at baptist greener study for relevantto the review

we screamed out that he thought program modelfamily time visiting with not the potential program alamat for example competition might affect supplementaluh... might not have been provided to look at the family we all thought greed out that he that didnot ye intelligible study design expect the fight in the legislation thesewere randomized controlled trials and quiet experimental define i'll be retained application sudhi now thatwe could collect approbation about how the program alpharetta on that

we all eliminated studied and missed the targetpopulation did not include interpret diamonds are families with children pages burke eliminated unsteady because they did not examineany of the child and family how com from the eight eligible out unsightly earlier out beyond eliminated outside the programsthat were not names program model these were often generic comment for the interventionbecause they would be no way for tried to replicate them they weren't useful to thereview and then kindly we did not review uh... studypublished in a language other than being nice are published before

act nineteen seventy nine after we completed the tree we had take a certain on fourteen competitionmodel employment and tribal communities and i looked at their in alphabetical order i'm not going to go after each one of themnow because fish that can occur by more information about them yet but now i wanna very briefly ap review are study they think that uh... mentioned thatthe criteria we considered when reviewing

daddy the underlying tricare is identifying effectiveprogram model over the cheap favorable outcome her family affecting the mother of program motto is effective required for the study establish that a programcause theater outcome and that can be quite challenging becauseit means you need to rule out all the other reason for why the outcome might have occurred opelika program i know what outcome at thathe attempted at least what would've happened absent program services

if they i've never met the counterfactual though we are only reviewed studies with acomparison group or condition because the contract compacting condition is designed to representthat counterfactual what what happened up to the treaty group if they had not receivedprogram services and then the difference between the treatmentin the comparison alcon are the study the fact apa called and pat

allowing the legislation we included two typesof studied dying randomized controlled trial and pipe experimental design and randomized controlled trial family verifiedby chance treatment in comparison group the main advantage a bit this line is thatthe critters similar on average buffer characteristics that are known except that deputy or education level the cad and provoked which might unknown for exampleparent motivations the services for their

children intercut qualify experimental design three design for eligible for review matched comparison study inculcated time regression discontinuity act match compared to the bank also have treatmentand a comparison group if you find that prospect not random potentiallycompromising the quality of it fable k and regression discontinuity get time also eligible for the review

however eight defiant or not you engineerthat literature of the identified democrat also program model g_e_ repeat ninetyimpact abby within the home degrading at them we had find all eligible studies rating eitherhigh moderate halo trading abdicate studies ability to produce i'd buy it backnow a program out of the tracks our grading system helps to distinguish betweenbuddies in which we have more confidence at the observed finding burkhardt by the program

compared to those inmates if they're findingmy if you recall that the other actor differences between the programming certain conditions attacked the motivation attacked experimentthe ad i mentioned earlier ensure hydrating with the bank to random actcontrolled trial that were well employment admirer creating thanks randomized controlledtrials that have come problem and match contract buddy an established at the treatment and care group game on important characteristic at the beginning of the study

alone trading with the time to all other studiesthat did not meet the criteria for either the higher moderate rating and it mentioned earlier all of the studyin the cattle review received a low trading in the home these them i one empathize that the study rating didnot tell us anything about the finding and val or whether the program model of the factthat for example it's perfectly valid to have a high qualitystudy that show the program i'll have no effect a program monolith elaborated study may verywell be a factor

but we just don't have the evident make thatdetermination and i'm not trying to presentation overcamepatricia dot profile who will tell you about finding from our ideal of implantation anti-cancerlatin ppl r foul okay went back and then came back on the diplomaticreview identified unlimited body of the there tend to be very study travel on the biddingprogram about limited information was available thatprevent impact nearly all study included some informationabout forbidding model being evaluated or documented welfare learned about it mentation

eugene what knowledge we cut from the fifteenbody prefetch recap if these experiences and lock the players we got a definitive information about eachof the model we've been debating that additional repatriatedarmies model the hope that you may find that information youthful in determining whetherthe program could be a good fit for your community and people right left and right across ata time three topic the adaptation i think that we not alter thedevelopment of new model culturally relevant to american indians and alaskan native familiesand children implementation challenges faith

and their strict padegi overcoming them and there have been counted evaluated faithconducting study when in doubt that the latin let me get backto five p into that the program but we do not know whether or not the strategypresident p we extract information from nine colpal studyseven stand-alone implementation study and they think that what otherwise relevantbut did not have eligible divine included in that movie review the evidence i think that the study the identified fourteenmodel expand mentioned earlier

maintained a presentation i'm going to providewill be learned from it i'm going to begin by providing a brief overviewof the fourteen model additional details about into these modelsis included in the report no program targeted outcome of the three delhi i'll tell help developing and already had and pocketing parenting practices some appropriate for probably on improvingmaternal and child health outcome about the number of building

the baby family in child education programknown as baby fay if you could have been teaching point-blankright along but the bank to promote prematurity infantsand children and to increase parenting joan and knowledgeof child development other someone they really focused on improvingoutcome than expected to kill me the gamble that perry nato intervention program integrated earlier entry prenatal care improved healthoutcome among american indian women although maddening program i don't you tellthe truth of the primary noted there that

delivery any program upto included other types of therapy acute care group meeting after three felt that way and better be further they've been a model targetted participantsbased on the eve of their children well the bottle began offering benefits a family that day or an early infancy

impeded their family until children were betweentwo and five year though one program offering attitudes are eighty i program model pathetically trying to getpregnant women and one targeted women could be easily because they had targeted families would geta four-year-old children uh... program although were available to anyfamily meeting the tragedy in living in fifty-fifty graphic location well connected to the community either model targeting families with pacificrim think factor

gamble family spirit targeted adolescents and young women or nineteen-yeargoldberg younger at the time of compassion in another country that's been program theyexpanded that occupants twenty-two options well model typically target families and childrenliving in travel community i'm going to model enough we could have beentargeted population one-b_ priority implementing agency with there that they have been included indian reservation helping family there then a program that thatthey'd like to ban at their american indian

families and children but did not think thatthey couldn't i get couple community abandonment in delhi are we did include amadothat were evaluated outside they united eight every program model to evaluate it in canada one program allied child health and nutritionprogram implemented and papa program although template happen factionaland did not that minimum education requirement upon the data rather a populated area work from the community being scared

akshara interpersonal and communication atall antibacterial working with family targetedby the program although if you're going to get a lot of thatguideline for minimum education experience nearly all mandated at home visitor completerepair that and ongoing training hangout for many parents a lesson learned related to adapt to think that the model they'redeveloping new model better culturally competent background holly in banking hinging on amongcultural adaptation at one end of the bectero microgram at eighteen i believe the content of the candor programalthough

minor duckman critical component amputated to the program he wrote to reflecttarget population culture language you'd be back in contrast remember me off a bit and as acontinuum i guess mini mono in favor of developing ins and ends with the current population seven the build-up on the courtroom traditionsand knowledge of the community you couldn't buy program could fragment reviewthere in that particular adaptation

included both national home gardening model that way cabinet or american indian and laughternative country because and bone local program developed differentlyfor and often in partnership with the tribal populations that we target among program bill on the continuum we foundmany similarity in health program development plan for and implement that have been returned but emerged include included

involving tribal leader in program developmentand implementation growing culturally competent now and building on cultural strength and tradition irangate tribal leaders throughout the developmentprocess to provided by on dividing culturally appropriateand relevant program developing program content including family and training back

i do think that the instrumental role tribalelders played in their training promoting program or gamble one program designed to strengthen parentingpractices oracle admittedly relationships with the community targeted by the intervention each community the tribal council is involvedin all phases of the project from conceptualization and wrapping the grantproposal if the evaluation design

one travel quite difficult to other thankedme jadi biography development of the intervention program created often thought the rubble supportthe tribal communities and amp them to refund can lead to the program in one program the truck bomb and and promotion of the program continued throughout the project affected the patient and the dedication butceremony beginning

they attended added celebration predictableachievement at the end of the program unfairly deprives how can beat incumbent fromthe local tried culpability at the pre dentistry the program around and play and i thought that familywould be better able to connect with back from their tribe than with an outcry professional inquired staff members from the titan community i think it all up one of you program but zyuganovthe candidate to create an extended family support group another program soho day-to-day included

both tribal members and professional fromoutside the community unprogrammed employed stafford outside theout by their community program frantically important of courtroomproductivity training at that help them understand the history of the trial and cultural traditions and strength one study that looked like that from bothwithin travel community indicate

the navajo nation and arizona and in mexico and outside the community exploit their relationship between the racial ethnic match of the familyand provider and the family dot action with the program yeah environment without gambling you now have a happened after the racial ethnicbackground of the provider family did note however important that havingculturally competent home visitor

you could pique their native language a number of betty white building on the courtroomdragged and dropped them of the target population and incorporating traditional practices for example the indian moment prevention project developed a clinton faith on five eleven andunlimited with the traditional storytelling approach one of the article we've got help communityhelp them and what about the final logo for the program its mission in american indian art and tocreate the logo

about feedback from the tribal elders on varioustrap agree about the integrated traditional i'vebeen crafted and you get into the curriculum several programs at that time value in traditionaltraveling practices and the lead in the travel elder for example one program had american womanexcept for the period of them are caught them another program invited tribal elders theat program address everybody deprived of leptin learned aboutthe liberate homebuilding seventeen including the challenges they face betweenthe intended target population maintaining enrollment

and providing adequate levels of heaven that is reported program for generally ableto recruit from their target population but almost all program institution studies reported at between ten and then roughlyhalf protected him went through from the program early or electednot to enroll and thought that you thought that have effective method of an interventionoccurred on the program although it implemented with a high degree of fidelity to the originaldesign ensure that the model being evaluated actuallyimplemented act intended by the developer report of the nineteen th study concludedits review

provided information about program fidelity enter was depend for monitoring fidelity now learned that the program back in the worldcommunity traveling along they've been included the fact that uh... let the barriersthere that delivery furthermore i laugh at ordination along for the provider createdoptical the delivery that he's also reported that family dateda neat often made it difficult for permitting to deliver the content act intended overcome challenges

staff modified program model better alignthem if they need the predictable unmodified services program collecting feedback from pakistanand dan that netcore in keeping with the proper continue at qualityimprovement example staff indicated the delivering theprenatal intervention program adapted to the because it needs to be good eight an ongoing impact upon the data program payment determined at home but initiativecan medical claim interpreted smoke more finding equipment to be on

about threatening alcohol one-on-one makeup active advocatepredictably the end of frequently men schedule good cop upbeat modification bailout program that overcomeimplementation challenges impeded may have changed oil into the model lengthening modification program staff working in partnership involvedevelopment you'd like me to vent to show our programintegrity

development health programs ensure that thechange of acceptable you do not interfere with the court elementfor the model emphatically beautifully identified threehe challenges evaluated faith abedi talented and not unique to recruitingtravel community he made clear that consideration for teacherevaluations inability of any of the animation to dicaprioimproving even on the ability of the thirty eighth o'clockquality dot obtaining high response rate the discountacross study one reason study fateful only find three butbecause when printed and stopped at the program

scalping dropped out of the evaluation ofwell and did not want to participate in follow-up data collection comtel validate that manager without permission want that you know that the cultural differences writing employing interview the thought that albumin caregiver activate there that day behavior considered in conflict with culturalnorms study concluded that they read fondant probablymeant that battered by the interviewer rather than to reflect the genuine and action

that study deprive conflict between communitypatented analytics design element one betty devaluation that's about like an idiot point working group we keepriding on a peek at the time rather than a randomized controlled trial than the latter half the potential so great concern in the community one study attracted the issue iran and i think i think the pain for treatment

point active control condition in other words the comparison group we keep the highly valued not lost everything rather than usual care out of the group's may have increased madeby hand study author it's reported everything contact between the treatment andcontrol condition migration between tried a lot of developmentto plan for adopt implementing sustainable

living program along with regret local evaluation will provide opportunity to build the evidencethey on travel home visiting program we recommend that the actor including a pictureof the point a model of development and implementationof culturally relevant colluding model dwelling examines how well the model work american indian alaska native children and family people information about her remote shouldbe documented

informational increase if even though thethat model can be contained and that what he did over time note that you cannot reveal included informationabout romano hermit o_j_ that training requirement and non-profitmaterial a few study provides detailed informationabout all aspects of implications replicate model program need operation manualtraining manuals information about qualified trainer documentation of curriculum a program content

important back then arthur the delivery in addition i benefit added development identifycourt element of the program model leaning down with elements of the model that programs like implement with integrity which is about model developing should create fidelity indeed ocho relevant measured in implementation fidelity affectedthe greeley initiative implement that plan

expenditure including edges of the structuralcomponents of the model although such as proper frequently thirty delivery minimum that qualifications and training and the manner in which content to be deliveredincluding interactions between conduct and scene in addition won't be taking needed undi and the challenges of implementationand whether and how they can do that

typically information is needed about talented program state funding and pertainingmodel recruiting and retaining staff recruiting in enrolling family and delivering model contact well health program attempted to overcomethese challenges information to help inform future after implementthe not finally wimbledon pwd recap national colludingmodel nikon information is needed about the profitthat prevent you from making that occasion

including housing gate with the belgrade define intellectual pat adaptations anti-buchanan provided unwanted when additionalinformation is needed well information about prevent acceptable the blood donation from program participantsabout their preferences involved important to note inherent tensionbetween maintaining fidelity to quarrel into the program out yet making culturally relevant adaptation

information on how community than developerswork together to attract attention will contribute to the reader expenditureon the top agreement immediately we identified a few study designed to havethe capacity provide unbiased ethnic program impact you know utilization both according to thejury evaluation approach evaluator than stakeholders mediaeval heat work jointly to overcome the issue

defining evaluation that if you talk to bothgroups beat the credit to the intended to createlike ownership of the evaluation and the mac tonight the implement evaluationdata but the valuation and program namely that amanda might control child includedin your home the review were rated low but the high-level importation which we did not believe that the other studyfindings i'm not that i needed to pay particular attentionto the neat maintain eveything all indication infected said the dying in quebecdenton testified that it really achieved strong internal validity

added and the potential to that was called alitylap of the reasons fiditour dot com at that you mentioned earlier you can bind include well implemented randomi controlled trial dingell taped regression the continuity thatback but i think locate an aggressive the complicatedon another widely viewed in home building repairs in a deal i think that that and morefeasible implement we should be considered in the future again but looking to buy each day to keepthe treatment

even if not without many implemented and not be done in randomized controlled trial regarded to give their high quality measureswhen feasible including direct observation in fact the factthat administrative data any you thank you very much expected healthreport i_b_m_ bought them a value-added daily lampa report when collecting information on child outcome because blacktop invasion of his aren't youpromptly similarly repatriated main counter location

in the availability of culturally relevant edges which may be quiet and to develop when brilliantly measures that are not yetstandard finally begat every picture consider the humpty steady gradingcriteria and planning and implementing future study information about the criteria is includedon the whole beware wanted thank you for your time and now then in turn it over to carol herquestion and answer some fashion

came here on uh... manager and and schedule army but wehave time for a lady one question and then we have an immediate question oh are one talked again if anyone has a question at thistime please pass okay well movement figure questions for theend and army thank you need to olympian in anyharm you need to do in your book retired beyond

pictures if you did before they've been inbeijing anyway but if you don't you dare it and doingwell we anything buchannan it everybody it's an honor to be asked to speak with you outside the walker comply fell on the uh... or create report that you get your described and but talk a little bit about all of theinformation that's published in that report about program so much for your own

they've been previously studied in tribalcommunities now this weapon our businesses nudity so forgiveme if i can look at speculating that got hit by a excitatory website header uh... it's a national resorts for americanindian alaska native behavioral health program uh... doctor walker on the right there isthe director please doctor and she got a president thisyear of the association of american india positions doctor papp

so walker is in the blue and both those workers are cherokee uh... michel singer who's next to packagenavajo i have to executives eric secretary student co dot uk is on the left in red and that's me in the stretcher talking toyou know if you can see my gut wiggling amrdec change spreadshirt right now well and doctor walker here is sitting rightbeside me to make sure i don't tell any lies excite keith a

this report will tell you what i think it'suseful in this report first it affirms the value of community driven culture based planning and program that is a very important contribution comingout of this report second it provides program descriptions including some programmatic activities as well as outcomes of measures this descriptive material can be used

cut and paste i'll to help you design anddescribe your local programming for example the report mentions curriculum for parents based on six travel stories and legends and the reintroduction co storytelling and fisher and ball whom you see in the appendix usa it describes that stuff and you can cutand pasted another example gave elder prayers

toward you program families and you can imagine how influential is in getting those familiesrecruited broke cotton basis staff sensitivity to historical exploit patientand promise are described by crater and davis you'll alsofind that tendencies uh... theater their value in this report is that it gives you can specifically lessonsnow

you've already heard those lessons describingi'm going to talk about smoker let me get background music have a differentsounded field lessons are drawn from research creatures travel on this ticket programs so you can use what we call evidence informed local program design next slide please finding stuff for the first every home levine let me make it sound like religion

every home building program even if it's adaptedfrom model program heated editing and gotten powerfully shaped white local context and culture therefore every program is local innovation i want to emphasize that detailed programdescriptions program and books program research and evaluation

or vitally important for certain reasons first describing your program to funders regulatorsand other tribes second training your staff third monitoringand managing your program or designing your graduation plan sharing lessons learned with other tracks uh... load stations are much more likely to succeed

if they incorporate lessons learned for research i don't have to be randomized controlled research to provide you with useful lessons there are lessons to be learned from previoushome building programs that are studied in indian communities including immigrants uh... definetly

it can be done out here it is a graphic to illustrate howand why every program including replications modelprograms and indeed the original model program itself local innovations program in interventions for example parent training producer outcomes by acting through

what we researchers call intervening moderatingand mediating period see them in the blue box in the middle there the expiry of we call local context and culture researchers we call them interviewed moderatingcan't be getting very close where apparently street column m_p_s contract indeed they completely change be outcomes of intervention

intervention electricity parent training some of the obvious local contacts and culturalvariables include ridiculous what other pro problems clientele substance abuse expression fragile families different kinds of clients uh... respond differently to the intervention what are their services to clients is receiving for example subsidized housing or hot tubs

uh... whether the client gets richer or poorer director not older or younger whether staff highly-trained motivated or just average people or themselves dispiritedindicator physical setting for the program urban rural remote highly different with electricity or not child welfare

this is the social setting neighborhood little auction social capital or a neighborhood frank that it and very importantly the cultural settingwhether it's navajo apache whether it's traditional or modern or by cultural all of those

moderate and being variables also local conviction culture have a tremendous impact on how the program works if intervening variables are certain to besubstantially different in every locale controversy even the local context cultural setting uh...on programs is unique not cut all the electoral cultural city

although every community programs can and should learn from others significant differences plus also be taken into account klein in this graphic we illustrate how you can begin with eitherone adapting com model program to local context she died on the left there

war by humility a local program incorporating what has beenburden for research on the models and other programs this is what we call evidence supporting thepatient so you can start either way and what the uh... oprah report notes is that whichever way you start your likelywind up in the same place that program whether you approach the design of the programby choosing among program or adapted it uh... or starting with trade local planningprocess whichever approach you use

i want to emphasize the importance of yourwork community owning planning owning the planning process excite trees community driven planning it beneath the planning process whether you adapt among program or do whatwe call evidence-based local innovation anti-community driven

traveling alone planning process is very important wifey has attract interest effectively owning the planning process when it rivaled process the tribe satisfies tribal claims of sovereignty and government-to-government relationship

ideas under executive orders trees had legal precedents nobody could tell you what you have to do do you have to decide yourself the travel experiences the criteria took ahigher degree tribal self efficacy community competency

and more extensive control over community institutions and asset attractive optimize synergy among its community institutions toincidents of slash wants what intrigues drinks coffee break that tried to design homebuilding programsoptimal levels local contract if you start by choosing already programmedto adapt just remember you tried

are in the driver's seat and just a little footnote car dealershipcatch important health consequences tribal ownership can't control has been proven to reduce reduce the risks suicide younger tribal members for u researchers hope to hear her references

michael traveler encrypts leblanc uh... article title cultural continuity as a protective factorgoogle excitement x like where semantics anti-competitive even a connection with thepeople there we go

why researchers use ever at harvard researcher i gotta tell youresearch is very very useful this is a call to arms researchers evaluators your pre study illustrate behind researchon travel home deserted programs useful research evaluation one problem visiting programsprovides culturally appropriate knowledge can't be incorporated local program design

operation either track get to talk about that and could produce improvements get your ownprogram guilt-free study reports the fact that storytelling legends are effective content but the process

parental eighty at trial workpiece affect about research the study reports the principal that outcomedepends on the intensity upon visiting contact as one per week and duration that is three months to two years study supports that theory culture is prevention and treatment

physically currency performance is increase spot personal identity which has increased uh... cultural identity and currency performance yields school readiness which is one of the goals of the h_p_ program

research valuation ocular unique unity drivenprograms well-heeled more lessons to share old tribalcommunities the split them up and demonstrate power of culture based interventions demonstrate yet tribal programs earn some overdue long overdue understanding

and respect arm-in-arm tribal authority extracting here we go that m_f_n_ which have already been reviewedby the family again uh... can be classified ads content consistentdialect person content content the teens unique tribal communitiesincludes only visitors acting intercultural x

fulfilling cultural expectations for caregiving support encouragement consequently being accorded familial influencewhose family because compared with the uh... ambassadortactic external agency expertise eighty correct greater acceptance and likely effectivenessarguably by using travel approaches two trials were rather than approach is based on structuresand norms of western family

some tribes prohibit punitive child-rearingpractices and he's other means for eliciting complex use of traditional storytelling as a toolfor developing reading readiness synergistically incorporated culture based printed material supplement world cup it's likely to be broadly accepted and effective this would also further community schoolsof developing

it cultural identity in the new generation of tribal members four arts crafts music trudy and funny our traditional cultural and community access program content that can be used to strengthenparents morale commitment to parenting and capabilities

getting isolated parent to participate ina powerful candy uplifting and instructor built that into your program outfit community fell abrasion of life's milestonesis a cultural passion it can be used to reinforce caricatures of patient an effort again something you could be a great ideaprograms under your culture then there's a list

there are some system lessons in this report inundating communities it is important to get guidance and encouragementfrom elders and creating rules for elders it planning an oversight of operations it's important to community acceptance client erik compliance as well as to cultural appropriate lexus two and three

include unacceptably of replacing structural policy territorial conflict and inconsistency which teamwork and services coordination there are major coordination cooperation issues around in the child well worker and development that cam and should be result with a good spirit

indeed indian communities can not attractive terence if there are any basic needs yet this requires planning access to local services and resources five freedom or this term resources required completed reform onto the personality

through the process with parents to ensure successful referral but i'm going to drive down a bit kid to fifteenlessons for trial we're talking about the big purple circleon the left there this whole diagrammed here it is a trunk ofa larger logic diagram i have prepared to cover the entire community opening program which you may think jeanne in d_c_

uh... exchange anyway when i get to know that i don't have time to go through the wholediagram today this is just a piece of etc got more pieces it not if targeted on time the actress tracks therefore we cannot expect good parenting with a teacher and that their basic needsit the services resources in this component xcircle

supplement repetitive designed to assist personsstable to independently fulfil our duty oval demands at particular times lives tony need etheridge spirit the services epic prerequisite and being able to perform will disappear the children themselves offtopic circuses

so this becomes an important part of yourlocal blood on it it got to figure out how to beat the speeds very very quickly architecturally and derek burney here checks ideally these services would be readily acceptableto anybody abrogating the jury system and actually accessing the services and resources khadija aunty

for persons with disabilities challenges tobe insurmountable without assistance one of the functions homebuilding programexpansion parents to be services but not linking catching the need for service making referral insisted the car of navigation access

when i call completed referral but slightly sheer im going into a content management three and four again this is peace it's just a piece of alarger kada electric car cultural content in the eligible there can be used in a number of important ways culture affectionate torrential

morrell knowledge skilled ultimately performance including aspiration morale values principles stories an image that's based on that theory culture prevention and treatment you can put thattheory in your plan contribution

prevention treatment the home visiting program can facilitate culturalinput by getting parent and child to attend culturalevents for example there's an activity for you improving the tribal acculturation socializationintegration of paris search to make them better members of the tri which is also a trolley fastball in addition thirteen corporate

performance stuff cultural content quiet asset or the process solidity trip homebuilding program and use the culturalprocess storytelling really centric people's cultures and a cultural content of traditional stories to develop early reading skills

i'm i'm really just very excited about thatprinciple i think that's lot of power i have myself served in a program to help non tribal at risk it's become better readers i have much of a european portents of thecontent everett material one uses to concur child interest popular movies like cars animals like dinosaurs monstrous stories all of these things youcan work with kids i was working there

tribal legends and stories provide the samemotivating content if you're married you're going to have kidsschool ready also at home building program kentish camps cultural patient to trial reading as part of a larger tribal initiative that's what we call cultural renaissance

next and last whether you are at that uh... this is the future directed especially to the attention of theresearchers and evaluated in the crowd recapping model program or starting at the local innovation props planning process threats of technical assistance to your localplanning process no matter how unique

your local competition culture there is a great deal of value again building upon lesson of previously implemented or programs of course if you're working at the momentprogram the developer can be evaluable sourcebook technical assistancedesigned patient valuation and ultimately and sharing your experiencewith other like we're doing here today but if you are plot beginning with a eight local uh... innovationplanning process

you really really the to get her collection system perhaps directly from the strides were identified admissible pre report prior to try technical assistance is dot goodway to go in our experience might also get it uh... valuable assistance from the researchers

researchers and evaluators either some of them guys are let's call right now uh... who should be dot sources of technical assistance tribes that arent dante once got a fender wishes you every success you know thank you dot com died in time won't won'ttake any questions that people hang

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