parenting assessment

conscious parenting is actually kind of i want to say the opposite of traditional parenting but it's extremely different in traditional parenting. we have enough in the society with the child on the bottom and we dictate to the child what to do what not to do. we fix the child and they got to obey. ok but in conscious parenting its kind of

i want to call it if the spiritual growth through parenting. so it's kind of parenting the mask on top of it. as the parents grow up side-by-side by their children they grow spiritually how does that work? so the conscious parent does not fix the child. observes, is nonreactive and when she's actually triggered by that misbehavior by the

child, does two or three things. first of all pauses, figures out 'why am i getting triggered? questions, have an inquiry why am i getting triggered and by going through the process of psychological process you will always find out that the reason that we're getting triggered it actually going back to the childhood and the memory in childhood usually when they were 0 - 6

years old and a little bit older. so first of all pauses, why am i getting triggered, allow space. doesn't want to fix the child and and somehow allow the child to find its path. it doesn't mean she or he is permissive, not not unconscious, and not a permissive parent but allow the space for self to figure out what's going on

and find the right solution the right action without getting triggered, without getting reactive, without yelling without punishing, without putting kids in timeout so all the traditional ways and

timeouts which is i think we're all doing a lot in traditional parenting, is not acceptable in conscious parenting.