the reality is that so often we are justdisciplining kids. we're telling them all the time don't do that no no no don't dothat and what not to do, but if you use the skill of correcting behavior i foundthat, in my own family, both with my grandkids or when i watch my children when they'reparenting those same kids, when they tell them what to do the chances of success are just so muchhigher. rather than just saying what not to do and having them get in trouble forthe things that they're doing wrong, thy're taking the time to have kids practicewhat to do right. and the more they
practice what to do right the morechances of the next time they're in those
same situations that they're going to doit. and i just find that may has made a really huge difference ingetting more positive behaviours, having kids do what you want them to do more often, because they practice it. and that makes a huge difference.
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