hello, i'm dr. felicia, and i'm here to speakto you about how to arrange vacation time after divorce. now, very often, each parentwants to take their child with them to the, a vacation, a summer vacation. and sometimesyou have conflicting times when you, vacations may fall at the same time. this is very importantto work out ahead of time. if you're lucky, you'll do it at the time of the divorce andit becomes part of your divorce papers. what many parents do, is use alternate years. forinstance, on odd years, the mother has the child for vacations, and on even years thehusband takes the child for vacations. they may do the same thing with christmas and newyear's vacation, thanksgiving. one parent may get the odd years and one parent may getthe even numbered years. and, that way, it's
all pre-set and pre-established, and bothparents get to share in the child's welfare. where you have difficulty is when each parentwants the same time, and that's obviously not going to happen. ah, hopefully both ofyou will co-operate with this. if you have
it pre-set and pre-planned and adhere to thatplan, you'll all have a much happier child in the long run. and, i think that's whatwe all look for, mostly for the benefit of the child. i wish you luck in your extendedfamilies and in your future endeavors, good luck and god bless.
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